You are a daughter of the Creator of the universe. I am here to help you to overcome whatever tries to keep you from holding on to this truth.
This is intended to be a place of respite, a place to learn, to listen, to become more aware, to move forward and to live with more peace and balance.
I am a life and creativity coach and multi-faceted artist. Again and again, with female clients and friends, the issue of boundaries comes up. As does the inner turmoil it causes when healthy boundaries aren’t in place.
Do any of these ring true for you?
- People pleasing
- Feeling bad for saying “no”
- Approval seeking
- Trouble setting limits & healthy boundaries with others
- Being afraid of upsetting others
- Difficulty valuing your own needs (or even knowing what they are)
- Taking responsibility for other people’s problems and feelings
- Having a hard time believing in your own worthiness
- Feeling you’re not enough (or what you do is never enough)
If you struggle with these things and have managed to stay out of toxic relationships, count yourself as very fortunate. It’s possible though that you sometimes wonder if you have a magnetic bullseye on your forehead to attract people who drain the life out of you. There’s something to that.
It used to happen to me more than I can count. The difference between then and now is that before, I allowed these people and situations to take up [way too much] space in my world, but (through much practice) learned how to effectively deal with them and not pander to them, run after them, or allow them to guilt trip me.
The magic ingredient is healthy boundaries. It’s not always easy, but it’s possible to live with more balance and peace and value your own needs as highly as everyone else’s.
Being spiritual and kind does not make you anyone’s doormat. The opposite actually. As a child of God, you are to be treated with dignity and respect. Anyone who cannot honor this needs to either learn to do so or no longer take up your time, your energy and your life.
I can help you to put limits in place for dealing with people and situations that drain the life out of you. Through doing that, you will create more space for what you want your life to be about and give to others from a place of dignity and truth.
Intrigued? Let’s have a conversation. You can click this link to schedule an introductory call with me and we can explore where you are feeling stuck and how to help you move forward. No charge. Just please follow through if you book a call.
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